Its time

I'm a gay, Pagan who walks in a Shaman's world, with the wildness of Eclectic Paganry at my side. Yep, I just made up a word, *grins* I do this with great regularity and usually lots of laughter.
Why am I working on this site again after at least a year of letting it slide? Well...it seems that there are many who think inside of boxes and those boxes are the only thing that keep them sane. I'm here to tell you that thinking inside a box only makes the box crowded, because no one person can stay boxed in with how and what they think of the world; not in the long run anyway.

We have to grow, we have to stretch all the limits we can on a regular basis or how are we to know our ideas are actually ones that will benefit us in the long run of life. The challenges of life never stop, so why should we in one small box of who we are as a person, a race, a gender, or anything else that is a part of what defines us as human beings.

Yes, I'm female, so why do I use the word gay?
Because I'm not just part of one world, the lesbian world, I'm a citizen of being totally queer in many ways and to me the word gay fits better than just or only lesbian. I'm a Butch, I'm a Two-Spirit, I'm just as much a guy as a gal and even though when I was younger, I did try to be a Femme; it never fit me as who I am especially now, with the path that I'm on and the lovely woman I have as my sweetheart. That House, the cats and the dogs and even the mundane grind of the "day job". You won't find me talking about that place when I'm not there, not on my Facebook, not on any of my blogs or just in general. Its not that I don't like what I do, cause most of the time I do; its just that my job does not define me as the person I am or the life I do my best to live. It is where I get my money to survive in this day and age of bills for almost everything.